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1. Why would Jared Leto do this to his hair?!


It’s a ponytail and a bun. You know how I know? Because I used to wear my hair like this when I was studying for finals in college. Not to the Golden Globes.

2. I love Andy Samberg. I wept when he left “Saturday Night Live.” Maybe not so much weeping as just saying to my husband, “Oh that sucks that Andy Samberg is leaving SNL.” But I do think he is very funny and I really wanted to like his new sitcom “Brooklyn Nine-Nine.”

But the show feels uninspired and flat to me and the morning of the Golden Globes, I deleted it from my DVR for good. And then bam – two Golden Globes for the show. I think the Hollywood Foreign Press might be a little drunk. Okay, a lot.

3. Why would a 70-year-old man (who looks so much like my dad) jump on one of those electric motorcycles just two days before his hip replacement surgery?

dad on motorcycle

I guess he figured he hadn’t done enough damage to his body trying to ice skate with the twins the week before.

dad ice skating

4. Why does everyone think Jennifer Aniston is pregnant because of this photo…

85th Annual Academy Awards - Arrivals

Apparently, it’s the placement of Justin Theroux’s hand that is the tell tale sign. I guess she could be pregnant.

Or maybe she just leaned over to Justin and said, “Honey, that triple cheese beef taco I ate in the limo is not sitting well with me. I am so bloated  I am about to bust out of my Spanx so be a dear and put your hand in front of my stomach while I get my photo taken.”

Or that pregnant thing.

5. Why are they pretending that Haddie Braverman never existed on “Parenthood?” I really think she would have shown up to her mom’s election night. I’m not even a big Haddie fan but I don’t like when TV shows just change the rules like that. That little Nora Braverman better watch her back.

6. My girls loved the movie “Frozen” and I thought it had a pretty good message for girls. Plus, I seriously adore that snowman. But Disney, enough of the anorexic waistlines and big weird doe eyes.  It’s not a good example for young girls and it’s super creepy.


Yes, creepier than Jared Leto’s pony-bun.


One morning, I walked into the bathroom and saw this…

barbie doll suicide

And I immediately thought, “Wow. What the heck is going on there? Oh, this is definitely ending up in one of my blog posts.”

And then later on in the day, I saw this on Twitter…

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Oh snap! My husband just stole my blog material.

He felt horrible. And by horrible, I mean, he didn’t seem to care much at all. He claims, he’s given me plenty of blog material over the years.

I don’t know what he’s talking about. Because I would never poke fun at him for  sleeping with his Emmy award or his safety dance pants or his willingness to trade shirts with strangers.

“Well what am I supposed to blog about now?” I ask.

“How about that rye bread thing?”

“Oh you mean, the fact that we buy a rye bread each week, you eat the four slices in the middle, then throw the rest in the freezer because it’s no longer fresh. And now we have 14 bags of half eaten rye bread in our freezer. Yeah, maybe I’ll mention it.”

And then I gave a fierce warning…

“Rick – if Barbie dolls ever commit suicide again in our bathroom or anywhere else in the house – do not tweet about it. Or post it on Facebook. Or Instagram. Or write it on a poster board. Or even a post-it note.”

He seemed to take me seriously but it was hard to tell because he was focused on eating a fresh rye bread turkey sandwich.

“So what are you going to blog about?” he finally asked.

“I don’t know. I’ll think of something. Maybe a post about how you stole my blog post. That might work.”


The first time I ever heard about breast pumps was when one of my best college friends pumped in the way back of a car while a bunch of us were driving around on vacation in New Orleans. (She had left her baby for the weekend and needed to pump to keep producing milk while she was away.)

I didn’t really know what she was doing exactly in the back of that car but it was apparently very important because the term “liquid gold” kept being thrown around.

Once I had a baby, I learned all about the pumping thing. That basically you hook up a machine to your boobs and then it hopefully sucks the milk out like some sort of human cow while making a bizarre noise that sounds like a secret message from the dairy gods.

Meanwhile, the husbands have to act like it is completely normal to see their lovely wives attached to one of these medieval contraptions.

One of the worst things is pumping while at work. Because you invariably forget and all of a sudden you are in some meeting while your breasts, which have grown to the size of honeydew melons, are leaking faster than the BP Gulf oil spill. You have to immediately excuse yourself and seek refuge.

And unless you work for some fancy company with a deluxe breast pumping suite (I did not),  you have to barricade yourself in cold, public bathroom so you can pump and bring yourself some relief. Then you shove the milk in a community fridge and hope Eddie from Ad Sales doesn’t mistake it for his vanilla creamer.

I’m on my 5th kid and I’ve barely pumped this go around. But my sister Quinn who works 3 days a week as a lawyer must pump regularly. Which is fine because she has an office with a lock.

Except the lock broke.

So when it was time to pump, she shut the door and left this note for anyone who might come by wanting to see her….

Breast Pumping Note on Office Door

Surely, that girl deserves a new lock because it’s only a matter of time before some harried paralegal comes barreling in with a frantic deadline and has to witness what only a husband should have to see. They will be sorry indeed.


The nice thing about having a big family is that as I watch my older girls become more and more independent and just so ridiculously big, it helps me to appreciate the wonderment and magic of toddlerhood.

Which would be a real gift if my 3 year-old son wasn’t making me so crazy all the time. My son’s idea of independent play is independently saying “I’m hungry” a 1,000 times a day. So I simply explain….

“No one can eat 3 pancakes, a yogurt, applesauce, a cheese stick, and a bowl of cereal and be hungry. Do you have toys?”

“I have toys,” Chase confirms.

I knew he had toys.

“Do you know where they are?”


“If you don’t go play with them right now, I will throw them away.”

And then he scurries off to play with them for 45 seconds which apparently whips up his appetite again.

When it comes to naps and bedtime, he comes out of his room over and over again to complain about phantom stomach aches, unacceptable dinosaur sheets and hot pajamas.

And this is also a boy who will eat his entire dessert and then proclaim that he did not like it at all and throw a tantrum because I won’t give him another more acceptable dessert.

The 3-year-old mind is an intriguing place.

my parents are exhausted t shirt

I look at my older girls (7 and 9) who seem to be moving further and further from me way too quickly and I plead with myself to enjoy my 3-year-old boy who adores books, loves magic and will say things to me like, “If this was my house and I was you, I would totally let me eat this candy cane right now.”

He is so loveable and frustrating and I know that someday he will make his own snacks, sleep for too long and be far too busy with his iWhatever to notice me.

So I try not to yell (too much), and appreciate his deep commitment to jumping and flying through the air whenever he sees the opportunity. There are lots of opportunities.

And at night, when he is finally asleep, I brush his strawberry bangs to the side and kiss his sweet lips and whisper, “God, I love you so much when you are sleeping.”

chase sleeping


I was trying to figure out the best New Year’s post for you all.

I considered making a New Year’s resolution list but do you really need to know about my goal of not watching “Good Luck Charlie”  when I’m alone? (I swear I only watch a few minutes.)

I thought about a “how to guide” on twerking or the Harlem shake. But I don’t really know how to twerk or Harlem shake.

Or a tutorial on who’s the cutest One Direction boy as determined by my girls and their friends. And don’t even mention Justin Bieber to them. He is so over.

Or a recap of the year in butt cracks. Like the photo below could be for the month of October. I actually know this nice girl. But take a look at the guy behind her.

butt crack

Or I thought about starting a countdown clock to see how long it takes my husband to eat the case of mandarin oranges slices he bought at Trader Joe’s despite the fact that I have never seen him eat mandarin oranges in our 13 years together.

Another possibility was posting the 50 sexiest things Ryan Gosling did this year but someone already thought of that.

I thought about posting a poll… if you could only have candy, wine or TV in the coming year, which would you choose? But it seems depressing to even consider just a situation.

I thought about a list of all the things I’m grateful for but that seemed sort of Thanksgivingish.

So I thought I’d just tell you the one thing I am the most grateful for in 2013.

The one thing I can’t imagine my life without. The one thing that saved me, completed me and fills our lives with joy.

kelcey and Cash

Yeah, that boy.

Wishing you a very happy New Year. Let us know if you need some mandarin orange slices in the coming year!


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